My boyfriend has just accepted a job overseas and I'm really happy for him. Problem is that he expects me to go with him! I had no intentions of moving - I have my own career here as well as my family and friends. But he's upset that I don't want to go too. I had thought that we'd continue our relationship long distance but he thinks it would be too impossible to manage. Am I being selfish by wanting to stay?

Sally

Demi Moore does it, but are there any women here who date/are itnerested in younger men? I'm 20 years old, fit and active, a good conversationalist, but I'm sick of girls who just want me to buy them drinks and tell them their bum doesn't look fat. So what attracts women to younger men?

I'm in my 30s and I'm really happy with being single. To me it means freedom! But my friends are all married with kids and the questions from my family about when I'm going to get married and have kids are starting to get less jokey and more serious. It's really starting to get to me. Why can't they accept that I'm actually happy with things the way they are?!

Anyone got any tips on how to deal with all this pressure from everyone?

Sandra

I was really excited about the idea of proposing to my boyfriend until I talked to some of my friends. They seem to think it's a really bad idea, that he might not like the idea of his girlfriend proposing to him. I really didn't think it was a strange thing to do. I had this beautifully romantic night planned but they've got me worried now. I don't want to freak him out! Do guys really think it's weird when girls propose?