A messy housemate
After dating for three years, J wants to move in together but I don't know if I can put up with his messy habits. He leaves his socks on the coffee table and never puts anything away. His father is the same and his mother just says that you have to accept that men are like that and pick up after them. J says my standards are too high and that he likes to be comfortable in his own house. He's perfect except for this but I don't want a lifetime of playing housemaid to a slob.
Distressed.